Date men and women from Canada / Newfoundland and Labrador / Labrador City, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from Labrador City, Canada. Positive, energetic and family oriented. Lots of life experiance. I died once for eight minutes. Thats my best story but i have many more. the only thing I like more then telling the story of my life so far and my plans for the future is hearing other people's great stories. Intelligiant and funny. Passionate and fun. I'm nurturing by nature but I don't believe in or practice self sacrifice for the benefit of others, that is no better then total selfishness at the expense of others. I have awesome kids, everyday I'm amazed at the fact that I helped create them. Not one day has passed in over 16 years that I have not been amazed by my children. I prefer to be involved with someone who has kids because I just can't see myself relating to someone who doesn't. But it is not a deal breaker.
Deal breakers: illegal drug use or Prescription drug abuse, frequent drinker, negative glass half empty person, no life experiance: things always coming easy, lazy watching tv 4or 5 hours on a daily basis, not adventurous unwilling to try new things, destimination based on typical things like race, gender, sexuality ect.
I only want to add people to my life who are going to be a positive presents. Whoa that was a lot of writing if you took the time to read it all I appreciate it very much. I am clear on what I want and will never settle for less. I think it's better to be upfront because it waste less time. Time is valuable and should never be wasted. I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy I am not a needy person I have a great life, if mr. Right comes along that is wonderful but if he doesn't I am fine with that. I only want to be with some one whom I add value to their lives and who adds value to mine. Also I support my family and expect no less from a potential partner, if you haven't got your financial house in order yet you are not the man for me. Ok I'm going to stop now lol at first I couldn't think of anything to write lol but once I get going, watch out! Be positive and you will attract more positive things to you. I truly believe that and my life has proven it right.